She Said/He Said

Each Saturday both Wayne and I post the following week's question and our own answers (with mine being the correct one of course) on both of our blogs - we'll also open up a linky so that you can add your own posts! If you and your spouse both blog you can put up your answers on each blog, or if you are the only prolific writer in your family you can ask your SO their opinion and write their answer down for them (word for word of course).  You are also welcome to hook up a He Said/He Said or a She Said/She Said - whatever works for you!

The questions to discuss this week are:

How does your partner signal to you that they are in the mood for some lovin'?

Hmm... with three kids ranging from 14 to 18 months knowing that he's in the mood and having the opportunity are two different things entirely... one of the surest signs is that he takes time off work... around Erik's naptime... or he's more touchy feely... something that he often is not... other than family, Wayne hates to be touched... he doesn't even like shaking hands with strangers, so when he is truly being affectionate I know that he is in the right place... but whether we can connect is still an issue

part of our issue is that we're on two different schedules - Robyn and Erik stay up later than Liam and Wayne who have to get up at oh my god it's early,  so reading the signs and being able to do something about it are two different things...

Read Wayne's response here

Next week's questions: At what moment did you (or do you think you'd) know that your partner was the 'one' for you?

If you want to answer the question for yourself or have both you and your spouse participate, just write your post and link up below... or share a comment about the topic ...